Shelly Becker Is A Husband Stealing Slore ! Shelly Becker only dates married men. She has no remorse for tearing families apart, kids and all ! She lives off of her parents money because she’s a failure at everything she attempts. She runs a cooking business in Amsterdam, NY called Whisk Me Away…. DON’T let your husband take cooking class , she has NO shame , NO conscience , NO self respect.